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Old 10-28-2014, 03:48 PM
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Thanks for the advice, everybody. Going to take me a while to digest, and then I'll make a proper reply, but I really appreciate everyone's input.xxx
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Old 10-28-2014, 03:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Climber122 View Post
Here's a very good talk on "emotional sobriety" that you might find useful. It's a long talk but hang in there. The "when do I get happy?" question is something that plagues a lot of us I think. I hope this helps you as much as it did me:

http://aa-speaker-tapes.s3.amazonaws...20Sobriety.mp3

Thanks- it is helpful
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Old 10-28-2014, 07:56 PM
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Dollpart you don't have to go to aa if you don't want to. In my opinion your putting in way too much thinking on this. If you're tired of booze just quit. No girlfriend or social setting or family member or anyone can influence you to drink or not to drink. Aa is a great fellowship. Go to meetings because you want to. If you don't like going there, then stop going. Just don't drink. Things will improve if you stop drinking. If you don't and your an alcoholic then you will destroy your life. Find your method of giving up drinking. I wish you well!
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Old 11-04-2014, 06:10 AM
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I relapsed.
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Old 11-04-2014, 07:37 AM
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I relapsed.
Forshadowed by your initial post and admittance that you used drugs.

So what's the plan now?
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Old 11-05-2014, 06:13 AM
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I don't know what to do.
Maybe I'm just not ready.
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Old 11-05-2014, 06:34 AM
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The 12th step sez carry the message to other alcoholics and practice the principals in all your affairs--nothing about going to meetings. It's a big world. Try to help somebody in whatever arena or capacity you can and you are doing 12th step work (selfless acts of giving is the way to contentment in all spiritual paths). Your struggle, perseverance and hope is something to share...here for example. I don't use AA much anymore but not so much because it's wrong but I've found other tools. Best wishes on finding what works for you!
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Old 11-05-2014, 06:38 AM
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Well, if you are drinking, better to finish that, get some rest and come back and put a plan together. I'm sure you will find help with that here.
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Old 11-05-2014, 07:04 AM
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