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Old 09-19-2014, 06:35 AM
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I'm a little over one week sober.
I would have 3-6 beers every evening at least 4 days a week and I would floorboard it on the weekends. This went on for roughly 15 years.

I started developing some digestive issues as of late and finally came to my senses and decided enough is enough.
The way I see it, I packed more drinkin into 15 years than most people do in a lifetime and since I've gotten my lifetime quota of drinks outta the way I can now move on with the better part of my life.
Sentence served....

Thanks for all the help! I'm not sure I would have made the first step without finding this place.
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Old 09-19-2014, 06:43 AM
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Great going on 1+ week PT - Glad you are here
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Old 09-19-2014, 06:46 AM
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one week is pretty friggen huge congrats! sobering up has its mile stones 1 day 1 week 1 friday night 1 saturday night 1 good day 1 bad day 1 holiday sober etc.. they add up saying no to an excuse to drink again and again and again seals the deal and we can remain sober! good job.
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Congrats on the one week and more importantly this realization. So what is your plan to stay quit?
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Old 09-19-2014, 07:32 AM
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Well done on your week. Great stuff xxx
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Old 09-19-2014, 07:32 AM
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Congrats on the one week and more importantly this realization. So what is your plan to stay quit?
Well, I'm looking at this as a lifestyle change, and stopping drinking is just part of a larger picture and not always my main focus.
It's a practice in willpower, impulse control and self discipline. I am trying to relearn and practice these things every minute and it's been tough!

My plan is simply this, I do not have to drink today. If and when I think I do need to drink I tell myself I don't need to fight it, just don't act on it. Simply do nothing, nothing at all. It always passes and it is working so far.


Yea, I know it's early in the game but the above has been working for me, I also know I'll have some tougher days.
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Old 09-19-2014, 08:36 AM
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Well, I'm looking at this as a lifestyle change, and stopping drinking is just part of a larger picture and not always my main focus.
It's a practice in willpower, impulse control and self discipline. I am trying to relearn and practice these things every minute and it's been tough!

My plan is simply this, I do not have to drink today. If and when I think I do need to drink I tell myself I don't need to fight it, just don't act on it. Simply do nothing, nothing at all. It always passes and it is working so far.


Yea, I know it's early in the game but the above has been working for me, I also know I'll have some tougher days.
Sounds excellent to me, PullTight. I like the statement that a direct battle is not needed, just a refusal to act. Along with this will come an acceptance of 'it' that need not be fought, and an acceptance of your new life, free from addiction.

You seem to have a strong belief in self, something I believe is a good predictor of success. If things get shaky or panicky for you, you can always go back to this belief. You will succeed if you only but believe you can. Onward!
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Old 09-19-2014, 10:23 AM
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You sound like a man with a plan to me. Congrats on your first week.
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Old 09-19-2014, 10:32 AM
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Excellent! Now do it again..
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Old 09-19-2014, 10:39 AM
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When people ask me why I don't drink I've been known to say "I had my share." Welcome to a very good life!
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Old 09-19-2014, 03:56 PM
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congrats on your week pulltight

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Old 09-19-2014, 04:12 PM
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welcome and congrats pulltight, thumbs up
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Congrats on the first of many sober weeks.
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