Need to stop for good this time....help!!
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Need to stop for good this time....help!!
I am so tired of this feeling. I drink myself into oblivion almost every night. I become a monster and hurt everyone that I love. My wife and step-daughter won't talk to me and want to kick me out. But the urge is so strong. This is only the second day that I haven't drank and I'm terrified about the future. What do I do to change my life for good?
You need to stop allowing your brain to think about it for starters. Don't dwell on it, any attention you give your cravings will only intesify them. Shut them out and avoid thinking about them. Sure, they will still be there in the first couple weeks to months but your ability to think beyond them will be the key to making it out of the trap.
Don't give in, the farther you go, the easier it will get. Remember that when you struggle in the beginning and most of all, shut the thoughts out as soon as they try to enter.
Don't give in, the farther you go, the easier it will get. Remember that when you struggle in the beginning and most of all, shut the thoughts out as soon as they try to enter.
If you carry on drinking its only going to get worse ring aa and try getting to a mtn to get some relief from others that have been in your shoes we are here but i highly suggest a mtn if you feel like a relapse is imminent
Just hang on no point going round in circles just to get this point again and that's if you make this point again
We are all here to help you can send a msg I'll get bk to you instantly if it helps
Focus on getting thru today book an apt with doc and explain your going thru alcoholic WD
Good luck
Just hang on no point going round in circles just to get this point again and that's if you make this point again
We are all here to help you can send a msg I'll get bk to you instantly if it helps
Focus on getting thru today book an apt with doc and explain your going thru alcoholic WD
Good luck
Coming here and admitting your problem is a great first step, welcome to SR. Have you considered AA or other local support? Sobriety is possible for anyone, you included, but it takes a committment and action on your part.
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Anon, have you considered rehab or AA? Don't be afraid to ask for help, especially in early sobriety. If you want to do this, you CAN, but it isn't easy. Having some help makes it a lot easier. Coming on here helps a lot too. If you've been drinking every day you might need to see a doctor too, because withdrawal symptoms can be very serious.
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Damn it, I relapsed. I am so angry with myself. It's day one all over again. I missed work because of it! Now it is affecting my job as well as my family. I just want to curl up in a ball and stay there. Damn it!
Anon1969,
At least 4 of your fellow alcoholics have suggested here that you seek out some local help, like AA.
I also recommend that you seek local help, like AA or rehab.
We are sober alcoholics. We have been where you are right now.
We are where you want to be.
Have you tried seeking local help?
forgive me if I'm stating the obvious:
People on this internet forum can only offer suggestions.
You have to put in the action for yourself.
At least 4 of your fellow alcoholics have suggested here that you seek out some local help, like AA.
I also recommend that you seek local help, like AA or rehab.
We are sober alcoholics. We have been where you are right now.
We are where you want to be.
Have you tried seeking local help?
forgive me if I'm stating the obvious:
People on this internet forum can only offer suggestions.
You have to put in the action for yourself.
Foreword, 12 & 12
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"A.A.'s Twelve Steps are a group of principles, spiritual in their nature, which, if practiced as a way of life, can expel the obsession to drink and enable the sufferer to become happily and usefully whole." Foreword to the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Your last couple of posts have been after a relapse, when you want to quit drinking. But no posts afterwards seeking help and support.
I can't tell you how to use Sober Recovery...but the folks that make it a part of daily support program seem to have some measure of success. There are daily support threads, monthly support threads. Consider making more use of them.
I can't tell you how to use Sober Recovery...but the folks that make it a part of daily support program seem to have some measure of success. There are daily support threads, monthly support threads. Consider making more use of them.
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