Do you know what is at the root of your problem? Alcohol or anxiety
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Do you know what is at the root of your problem? Alcohol or anxiety
Do you drink to overcome your anxiety?
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Does alcohol cause you to have anxiety?
Can you ever really overcome your problem until you know what is really causing you to drink and how do you find out?
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Does alcohol cause you to have anxiety?
Can you ever really overcome your problem until you know what is really causing you to drink and how do you find out?
Agree. It's definitely a chicken and egg debate. Regardless of what came first, putting down the drink will only help in the long run.
Both for me too. What finally worked for me was to stop worrying about why or how I became an alcoholic and simply accepting that I AM an alcoholic. Then I was able to move forward with getting better.
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I'm pretty sure most of us drank to calm our minds or to feel better, i started during a pretty low point in my life.
Im guessing that the people who drink just for fun or just for the hell of it are in the minority......
Alcohol makes you artificially "happy" for a few hours, so from that we can deduce that most of the people who picked up the bottle did so to numb themselves to reality
......... at least that was my experience, my life sucked at the time, so? i started drinking
Im guessing that the people who drink just for fun or just for the hell of it are in the minority......
Alcohol makes you artificially "happy" for a few hours, so from that we can deduce that most of the people who picked up the bottle did so to numb themselves to reality
......... at least that was my experience, my life sucked at the time, so? i started drinking
I gotta go along with both too. It's a vicious downward spiral that can only be stopped and reversed by stopping the drinking. I found that was causing it in me was a lack of real belief, faith if you will, that it could be stopped and reversed. Since I found that, it's become much easier.
Alcoholism was the cause of my problems and the solution (at least for a while at the same time.
The real root cause was selfishness and self centredness. Anxiety came from the fears that my base instincts for security, sex, prestige, would not be statisfied, and that I would not get my own way, that things would not turn out how I wanted, people would not behave how I wanted.
Anxiety and depression are documented symptoms of alcohol withdrawal, and are part and parcel of untreated alcoholism. They are brought on by alcoholism, but cannot cause alcoholism.
The real root cause was selfishness and self centredness. Anxiety came from the fears that my base instincts for security, sex, prestige, would not be statisfied, and that I would not get my own way, that things would not turn out how I wanted, people would not behave how I wanted.
Anxiety and depression are documented symptoms of alcohol withdrawal, and are part and parcel of untreated alcoholism. They are brought on by alcoholism, but cannot cause alcoholism.
For a long time I thought that I knew the reason I drank, but I think I was just repeating what other people said. Since I've started self inquiry, I've had to let those beliefs fall away and accept that I really don't know why I drank or used.
On the surface it was because I loved the feeling, beyond that I really don't know. The only truth I know of in regards to my drinking and drugging is that I can never take another drink or another puff of the pipe, if I do, then the madness will start all over again.
On the surface it was because I loved the feeling, beyond that I really don't know. The only truth I know of in regards to my drinking and drugging is that I can never take another drink or another puff of the pipe, if I do, then the madness will start all over again.
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Alcoholism was the cause of my problems and the solution (at least for a while at the same time.
The real root cause was selfishness and self centredness. Anxiety came from the fears that my base instincts for security, sex, prestige, would not be statisfied, and that I would not get my own way, that things would not turn out how I wanted, people would not behave how I wanted.
Anxiety and depression are documented symptoms of alcohol withdrawal, and are part and parcel of untreated alcoholism. They are brought on by alcoholism, but cannot cause alcoholism.
The real root cause was selfishness and self centredness. Anxiety came from the fears that my base instincts for security, sex, prestige, would not be statisfied, and that I would not get my own way, that things would not turn out how I wanted, people would not behave how I wanted.
Anxiety and depression are documented symptoms of alcohol withdrawal, and are part and parcel of untreated alcoholism. They are brought on by alcoholism, but cannot cause alcoholism.
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I didn't think I had any anxiety issues until I quit drinking. By some weird coincidence, I no longer have issues with flying or heights, and I no longer fly off the handle at minor things not going according to plan. Alcohol had an enormous impact on my thinking, personality, and outlook. I had no clue and would have sworn on a stack of Bibles it wasn't true... I simply didn't know that I didn't know.
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