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Old 02-07-2014, 06:02 AM
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What are your interests outside of alcohol?

Me: taking pictures, occasional baking, trying new restaurants, decorating

Just asking because I have been having a hard time mustering up the "umph" to do much else outside of AA meetings. Need to get reinspired...
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Baking, eating, reading, writing, walking, swimming, yoga, movies, going to coffee shops.

When I have money, skiing and travelling.
There are loads of great things to try, and now I have a clear head to enjoy them
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Comic books, Comic book related movies, Drawing, cooking, eating, walking, singing, working out, oh....did I mention comic books?
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Old 02-07-2014, 06:26 AM
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Science (also my job), psychology (related to my job), philosophy, arts, nature, animals, more recently yoga and exercise, raw food and cooking, meditation, travel... oh and music, how did I miss that one... too many interests?
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all not in any particular order.
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Old 02-07-2014, 06:38 AM
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In No particular order;

family,fitness, investing, nature, hiking, camping, cottage living, music, sex, coin collecting, travel, reading, movies\tv,
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I also really would like to have a pet (a dog or a cat, more likely a dog) but would need to change my current living situation to accommodate it; we'll see.

And I guess I dismissed the most obvious ones: reading, writing, and sex
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Reading, history, crafting, killing plants with my brown thumb, coffee with friends, trying to start a family.
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Originally Posted by freethinking View Post
...I have been having a hard time mustering up the "umph" to do much else outside of AA meetings. Need to get reinspired...
In the first few months of sobriety, recovery was my number one interest outside of alcohol. The other interests sort of picked up by themselves as my mind and body healed from the abuse I put myself through.

That said, sometimes you just have to do things without inspiration. Say you were injured...Physical Therapists don't wait for you to be "inspired" to get out of bed. They don't wait for you to "feel" like it. They get you up and moving.

Get up and do something. Your inspiration will catch up.
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Old 02-07-2014, 07:48 AM
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reading (bible in a year) a must to keep this #1
bicycle riding
a little fishing lately (hadn't done that in a long time)
hiking
trips to the desert in our simple little trailer (God's country out there)
church -- not to forget going to church -- I try to play hookie sometimes

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Thanks Carl. I think you're right.
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Old 02-07-2014, 07:50 AM
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Old 02-07-2014, 12:15 PM
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Working out , farming , my education , sex with wife -often
Wha? Karate isn't one of your interests?
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Old 02-07-2014, 01:09 PM
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Wha? Karate isn't one of your interests?
Can't go now , education in the evening .
Work out with youngest boy at home

We have all the gear , go pretty hard .

I'll go back , when I complete education .
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FT - I found I was unable to do much during the first few months actually. Other than eat lots of sugar. I found that it was all too overwhelming to take on and my energy needed to be focused on staying sober and setting up a recovery program. The second week into sobriety I quit smoking cigarettes (debatable whether this was smart but I did it). At 4 months I got back in the pool and started swimming again. I layered in cross fit 3 times a week and have not been as consistent as I would hope but its okay - travel mostly. Last month, so 5 months in I cut out all processed sugar and wheat from my diet and have found a tremendous boost in energy but the first couple weeks suck actually.

Its definitely a layering process and if your like me it best not to take on too much all at once or I get paralysis of everything. I attend 1-2 meetings per week, step work with my sponsor 1 night and meet with my therapist once a week. I travel extensively and am off to Asia tomorrow actually. I used to watch TV shows on the planes and now I read books, mostly about addiction. I just bought Tolle's book, A New Earth and another book suggested by an SR member.

Take it slow - I would never heed that advice but in retrospect is been the one constant in this process for me.

To answer the original questions: My family, meditation, skiing, race cars, trail running, tennis, yoga, mtn biking (downhill and cross country), swimming, Xterra Triathlons. I am debating buying a plane and getting my single engine pilots license.
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FT - I found I was unable to do much during the first few months actually. Other than eat lots of sugar. I found that it was all too overwhelming to take on and my energy needed to be focused on staying sober and setting up a recovery program. The second week into sobriety I quit smoking cigarettes (debatable whether this was smart but I did it). At 4 months I got back in the pool and started swimming again. I layered in cross fit 3 times a week and have not been as consistent as I would hope but its okay - travel mostly. Last month, so 5 months in I cut out all processed sugar and wheat from my diet and have found a tremendous boost in energy but the first couple weeks suck actually.

Its definitely a layering process and if your like me it best not to take on too much all at once or I get paralysis of everything. I attend 1-2 meetings per week, step work with my sponsor 1 night and meet with my therapist once a week. I travel extensively and am off to Asia tomorrow actually. I used to watch TV shows on the planes and now I read books, mostly about addiction. I just bought Tolle's book, A New Earth and another book suggested by an SR member.

Take it slow - I would never heed that advice but in retrospect is been the one constant in this process for me.
I think you are right...on the other hand, I have about 2 hours of free time right smack in the middle of the afternoon (when I used to start drinking), so I think I need something to fill that time.

I read A New Earth twice. Really resonated.
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Old 02-07-2014, 01:28 PM
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The single best activity in my opinion is yoga - I am trying to work that in. I find yoga and meditation to be key. I am a huge fan of Scattered Minds and Hungry Ghosts too. Power of Now was great also.
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sex with wife -often
sounds like a healthy one to me

from mountain man up top of the mountain
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Photography and thinking of taking a class for it, Zumba, movies, getting coffee.
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