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Old 02-04-2014, 06:17 PM
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dogged thanks for freaking me out dude especialy when im a paranoid
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Old 02-04-2014, 06:25 PM
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Sorry if I scared you but I'm in school too and what you said describes how I started out problem drinking perfectly. I had been drinking for years before that without any issues but over the course of a few months my mindset changed (and with it, my reasons for drinking.) If I had recognized it at the time then I probably could have taken a step back and gotten better. Instead I didn't and it spiraled downward.

Sober sleep is much better than drunken sleep. Drinking out of boredom eventually brings you to the point where you're bored when you don't drink.
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Old 02-04-2014, 06:28 PM
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Don't you find that drinking messes with your concentration the next day? Back in the day I noticed even one drink would mess with my ability to think during class the next day. I wasn't taking courses anywhere near what you must have being a medical student. That's a lot of time and money to spend on an education and not get the most of it.
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Old 02-04-2014, 06:28 PM
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you're absolutly right man
but even if i drink everynight before bed i never reached the point of being drunk and falling asleep i just feel sleepy after drinking and i fall a sleep fast , thats the whole thing
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not realy
im very focused the next morning and i answer during the lessons
alcohol never affected my studying process
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Old 02-04-2014, 07:28 PM
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of course im going to do it
first tomorrow after university im going to register in a gym then start building muscles and doing sport but the question is if after this period i would like to drink in weekends is that ok ?
You can do whatever you want mindood - but if you are concerned, I'd try the no drinking first, then you can decide what to do after that.

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Old 02-04-2014, 07:38 PM
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I wouldn't think so, but if you stop for a while and get strong urges to do it I would get back on here and work it out before it becomes a problem! Stay Strong and Well!
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I noticed over look periods of drinking, I couldn't concentrate for days… I guess everyone is different...
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Old 02-05-2014, 12:09 AM
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I think you've caught the problem before it becomes a big issue, so that's a good thing.

I couldn't fall asleep unless I was drunk. Mentally relax enough to want to sleep or to physically fall asleep. I was afraid of withdrawal so the only way I went to sleep was hammered, which ended up leading to waking up 4 hours later, basically sober, and then drinking to fall back asleep.
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Old 02-05-2014, 12:17 AM
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im realy scared of turning into alcoholic or something , i do like drinking and having fun but since i had nothing to do late at night i started drinking just to fall asleep
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does alcoholism depends on the amount you drink or the duration of drinking
and when it's considered as a red sign that i have to stop drinking ?
The more you drink and the longer you drink will cause your alcoholism to get worse and worse. For me anyways it progressed and got worse as time went on and the more I drank. I could never just drink a few drinks though. I had to get hammered every time I drank, which is what led me to become an alcoholic.

Only you know if you need to stop drinking or not. I drank to get hammered daily and didn't consider it a problem until I was going through withdrawal everyday, it was the only thing I worried about, and it completely ran my life.
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Old 02-05-2014, 12:37 AM
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does alcoholism depends on the amount you drink or the duration of drinking
As a medical student, may I suggest you read up on the chapter titled, "The doctors opinion" ?

Big Book Online - the doctor's opinion

Linked with the permission of Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc.

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Old 02-05-2014, 01:27 AM
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well guys i just decided to stop drinking for falling a sleep and letting my body sleeps independently without any artificial help
but still getting a drink or 2 in weekends wouldnt bother i guess ! right ?
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Old 02-05-2014, 01:32 AM
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hello guys i need a real help about my question
so i'll be thankful if u advise me
two simple questions from the AA Big Book
may help us answer this question


has Liquor ceased to be a luxury ?
and now became a necessity ?

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Old 02-05-2014, 01:35 AM
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Doesn't it worry you tho that you're already compromising Mindood?'

30 days (including weekends) really should be no problem for people with no booze problems, even university students.

Only you can know whether it's social pressure to fit in, or because you really can't go that long without a drink....

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Old 02-05-2014, 02:10 AM
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Can it be that just by coming here and asking us that you know what is really happening?
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Old 02-05-2014, 02:20 AM
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i agree with dee, try 30 days and notice the difference.
after a couple weeks you will feel your body sleeping better,waking up feeling better,
and youll enjoy not getting out of bed to urinate all the time
GOOD LUCK
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Old 02-05-2014, 02:49 AM
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I dunno....it really depends on how much THINKING about drinking engulfs your mind. Just my opinion but I find that if someones drinking has caused them to log onto a site like this....then its already become a problem for them.
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Old 02-05-2014, 03:16 AM
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Newcomers | About AA | Alcoholics Anonymous (Great Britain) Ltd

This is the UK site for AA, and it has 12 questions anyone new can ask themselves about their drinking. Doesn't mean you have to go to AA, but is a pretty good self assessment of how your drinking is affecting your life, and could help you make that decision about whether or not you're an alcoholic.

Very best to you
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Old 02-05-2014, 03:47 AM
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"and when it's considered as a red sign that i have to stop drinking ? "
this:
"im realy scared of turning into alcoholic or something "
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