What is meant by getting sober 'on your own'?
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I've also had a lot of success with an intensive therapy I went through a few years back. It was primarily for purely mental health issues, but it also applies perfectly to addiction too. I believe it's even being used more and more for addiction treatment (if you're curious, you could see if Dialectical Behavior Therapy is offered near you.)
Just recently I bought a workbook called The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook, it is excellent!! I've just started working through it.
SR has been my prime support in giving up. I tried going it alone, but I found it too easy to start drinking again as I found I had no feeling of 'owning' my sobriety, once I started posting how many days I had done and being congratulated on my achievements I found the desire to continue. Now of course I daren't drink again, as there are several here who would beat me to a pulp if they found out!!! ( yes it's a joke, but I do feel the added onus of not wanting to tell folk here I have fallen has added to my determination to succeed.) I owe my sobriety to finding SR, it so not my only support, I had some counselling, and a loving husband, but SR is where I find the understanding support and advice for every situation
Re Doing it on your own
The 10+ years I spent in A.A. was some of the best ever. I did what they suggested, got a sponsor, a home group and got active in the program. My sobriety was blooming.
Then, I slowly drifted away from the program, no surprises there. I got tired of the same old stories, I guess. So I started my own sober routine instead, which by the way suits me just fine. As long as I stay connected, somehow, I manage to ‘stay’ sober. I hope this helps
Then, I slowly drifted away from the program, no surprises there. I got tired of the same old stories, I guess. So I started my own sober routine instead, which by the way suits me just fine. As long as I stay connected, somehow, I manage to ‘stay’ sober. I hope this helps
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