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smalltowngirl 07-23-2013 09:25 AM

Any younger people go to AA?
 
Was just curious, as this week I want to start attending meetings (instead of picking up that drink after work, I've decided to replace it with AA!). But I'm scared. I'm in my 20's, and I don't really know what goes on.

karate 07-23-2013 09:54 AM

Nothing to be scared of ,Ill bet you find some caring ,good people there .

Non -judgemental folks .

SoberChristy 07-23-2013 10:53 AM

Let me know how it goes for you! I'm 26 and have been thinking about attending as well and have been curious about the same thing.

smalltowngirl 07-23-2013 12:10 PM

Thanks, I'll let you know!

visch1 07-23-2013 12:19 PM

Welcome. over the years quite a few in HS have become lucky members and there is a young peoples daily AM meeting not too far from me which is very popular. BE WELL

Lifewillgetbet 07-23-2013 12:31 PM

I am midpak at 30y old. There are plenty of younger and older people in my group. Youngest is 18.

karate 07-23-2013 12:51 PM

Not a thing you will learn there that will in any way be harmful .

We had a few younger folks when i went .

Db1105 07-23-2013 02:30 PM

I got sober in AA at the age of 17. That was a long time ago. Call your local AA group and just get to a meeting.

wolfpackfan45 07-23-2013 02:45 PM

My son is a recovering alcoholic and is in AA. Go to a meeting. If there are mostly older people at the one you go to, ask one of them if there is a young people's meeting in your area. They can probably guide you to one. Also, go to the AA website for you area and see if one is designated for young people. We have some in our area that are. Many times they're on Friday or Saturday nights late in the evening. My son attends all different types of the meetings and loves them. He's met a whole group of college aged friends. He also enjoys going to the meetings with the old timers because they have so much wisdom. I wish you the best.

smalltowngirl 07-23-2013 03:00 PM

Thank you all. I guess a big part of me is scared, going in there alone, not knowing anybody.... not knowing what to expect.... I'm an anxious person :p

2livesin1 07-23-2013 03:06 PM

Yes, I'm 22 years old. I'll have one year clean and sober on September 2nd. I spent a couple years going in and out of AA before I was truly ready to surrender.

Ettie 07-23-2013 03:08 PM

I'm in my 20s and have just started attending AA. I was nervous too and it took a little while for that feeling to subside. Don't get discouraged if you feels those nerves for the first few weeks. I'm in week 6 and am starting to feel much more comfortable.

Ettie 07-23-2013 03:19 PM

Just want to add - you can call your local intergroup number (google your town and state and AA) and see if they can give you information on a young persons group or even arrange for someone to meet you at a meeting. Good luck :)

smalltowngirl 07-23-2013 03:26 PM

I did find a local number where they can put you in touch with someone. Thinking of just taking a breath and doing that tonight.

Bubovski 07-23-2013 03:26 PM

Good to get in young before getting too inebriated, sick, obnoxious, crazy, and depressed.:headbange

smalltowngirl 07-23-2013 03:27 PM


Originally Posted by Murchovski (Post 4084837)
Good to get in young before getting too inebriated, sick, obnoxious, crazy, and depressed.:headbange

Was pretty much borderline there. That was one of my wake up calls.

Bubovski 07-23-2013 03:32 PM

Don't take anywhere near as long as I did to smarten up!:thanks

CousinA 07-23-2013 04:08 PM

I got sober when I was 22. There were a lot less young people then as now. Try some different meetings. Give time, time.

-allan

sugarbear1 07-23-2013 06:06 PM

Alcoholics Anonymous : Local Resources that provide A.A. Meeting Information (U.S./Canada)

Mark75 07-23-2013 06:33 PM

We get a lot of young folks at the meetings I go to. It is amazing how much we all have in common. Last Thursday nite a 20 yo young woman celebrated her first year and had a lot of great stuff to share.

Sally3127 07-23-2013 06:58 PM

Don't shy away from the older folks who have many years of sobriety. You can learn a great deal from them. Either way, it will be a win/win situation for you. Keep us posted.

Alraihani 07-23-2013 08:02 PM

Im 26 and have been around AA for a while. It helped save my life

Caldus 07-23-2013 08:08 PM


Originally Posted by smalltowngirl (Post 4084329)
Was just curious, as this week I want to start attending meetings (instead of picking up that drink after work, I've decided to replace it with AA!). But I'm scared. I'm in my 20's, and I don't really know what goes on.

I went to my first AA meeting when I was in my mid-20's. I've been "in" AA for almost a year now and I'm 28 years old. Plenty of younger people are at meetings. Go check it out. You have nothing to lose.

Grungehead 07-23-2013 09:12 PM


Originally Posted by smalltowngirl (Post 4084802)
Thank you all. I guess a big part of me is scared, going in there alone, not knowing anybody.... not knowing what to expect.... I'm an anxious person :p

Just remember that everyone at the meeting you go to has been in your shoes at one time. They all had a "first meeting" too.

Hope it goes well for you! :)

trent333 07-24-2013 12:10 AM

I'm 22 and have 2 months now. Things have been better this time with A.A. Don't worry yourself too much about being young. Everyone in the meetings say like a broken record they wish they started sooner rather than later.

StevenT 07-24-2013 12:21 AM

I'm 21 and have been a member since 19. You can read my story by clicking on the blog entries:1 if you so wish :D

Taking5 07-24-2013 01:10 AM

Here is what to expect:

Your First AA Meeting


Also google up young people in AA in PA. There are groups that specifically cater to young people.

GracieLou 07-24-2013 01:30 AM

I went to a lead meeting last night and she got sober at 21, so yes, there are young people in AA.

I am always inspired by the young men and women that I come into contact with. I wish I had realized that early on that I had a problem. Many of them have been sober a lot longer than me and I take what they say to heart.

Sugah 07-24-2013 02:34 AM

Currently sponsoring two women in their twenties -- one is 23 and has 21 months sober, another is 25 and has two years sober. One other sponsee is now 33, but she got sober at 26 and has seven years. I had coffee and pie with a young man after I gave a lead at his home group (at his request). He'll soon be 22 and five years sober. These are just a few.

Yup. We have young folk.

Peace & Love,
Sugah


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