Notices

6 Months sober:D...

Thread Tools
 
Old 01-22-2013, 05:48 AM
  # 1 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: Aussie
Posts: 79
6 Months sober:D...

Finally made it to 6 months! It's been kinda hard but very rewarding. In the 6 months I finished a course got a job working in that field got my health and fitness back and also the trust and respect of my family.

I've always had 'social' anxiety and I know that's the main reason I drank, it's gotten a lot better but it's still my major issue. (anyone got any ideas other than xanax or valium lol) I really have to start to get more involved in AA because that's where I learned about the disease and how cravings 'kick in' after the first drink.

I still get the 'poor me' attitude a fair bit that I can't go to a club and get off my face but in the end that wasn't fun anyway.

Anyway, this is a great forum and thanks everyone for their support.
Jaded1999 is offline  
Old 01-22-2013, 06:05 AM
  # 2 (permalink)  
Member
 
MrTumble's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2012
Posts: 442
Bloody good show !

Regarding social anxiety, if I was you, id look for some acting classes or drama school. A month of that and you'll have cracked it.
MrTumble is offline  
Old 01-22-2013, 06:09 AM
  # 3 (permalink)  
Member
 
coraltint's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2012
Location: Chicago
Posts: 577


you can lose some of that social anxiety in the meetings, too. worked for me....it's like a practice round for dealing with the normals out there
coraltint is offline  
Old 01-22-2013, 07:29 AM
  # 4 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: Aussie
Posts: 79
Originally Posted by MrTumble View Post
Bloody good show !

Regarding social anxiety, if I was you, id look for some acting classes or drama school. A month of that and you'll have cracked it.
lol.. Acting or drama classes would scare the **** outta me lol, prob why that is a good idea
Jaded1999 is offline  
Old 01-22-2013, 07:40 AM
  # 5 (permalink)  
Member
 
MrTumble's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2012
Posts: 442
If silvester stallone can do it
MrTumble is offline  
Old 01-22-2013, 09:33 AM
  # 6 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: Aussie
Posts: 79
lol
Jaded1999 is offline  
Old 01-22-2013, 11:55 AM
  # 7 (permalink)  
instant
 
instant's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2011
Location: Australia
Posts: 5,711
well done on your time- great news

sorry about the cold- it's summer here!!
instant is offline  
Old 01-22-2013, 06:22 PM
  # 8 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: Lowcountry
Posts: 2,762
Great job Shaun !

Congrats on 6 months , .....an important milestone (imho)

I suffered from the same sort of thing as a young guy. Luckily, a buddy and I got involved with a free training course (selling books door-to-door) as a joke.

After a Summer of selling World Book door-to-door, most of that social anxiety dissappeared.

Replaced with a sense of awe .......seeing how some folks lived !?!

And learning that rejection isn't so bad , after all. LOL !

The acting class is a clever idea. That'd scare the bejeeesus outta me too !!!
topspin is offline  
Old 01-22-2013, 06:23 PM
  # 9 (permalink)  
Member
 
24hrsAday's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Living in Today!
Posts: 3,944
Thumbs up

Six Months is Huge congrats!
24hrsAday is offline  
Old 01-22-2013, 08:07 PM
  # 10 (permalink)  
Fellow Traveler and Seeker
 
paul99's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Toronto, Ontario
Posts: 2,408
Congrats on the six months - wonderful!

I had a lot of anxiety issues as well, and they faded fairly quickly after I started working the steps of AA. A lot of the fears that caused my anxiety soon faded and I was able to walk through some of those fears, and in doing so, gave me more confidence. I hope you give it a shot - you might find that it will work for you as well.

paul99 is offline  

Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off





All times are GMT -7. The time now is 09:05 AM.