would you reset your date?
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would you reset your date?
Hi. I've been sober for 3.5 years. A couple weeks ago, I was sick with a really bad cough - the flu. I had been up all night coughing, really needed some sleep. It was 3am and I had to get up and go to school and work (and help my kids) in the morning. Though I had some non-alcoholic Robitussin in my kitchen, I wanted something stronger because that stuff doesn't really help me. So, I took a small dose of my son's cough medicine, which is the kind with codeine. I took about 7 ml (5ml was a child's dose) and went back to bed, and slept.
However, in the morning, it bothered me. First, because it wasn't my prescription. Second, because I had non-alcoholic kind and didn't take it. Third, I didn't give too much thought to it. I just wanted to sleep and I wanted something that I KNEW would work quickly and well, so I took some.
I have considered changing my sobriety date (because it's still kind of bothering me), but that doesn't really feel right either. I mean, I took a substance to treat a condition, not to get high. I didn't over-do it, AT ALL. I'm 185 pounds and took a slightly higher dose than the one intended for a 45 pound kid. And the very next night, when my cough was less bad, I took the non-alcoholic kind and of course, haven't taken it again.
Maybe what's bothering me is that I took a potentially dangerous substance (for a drunk like me) without any thought? Maybe it's the curious mental blank spot? I mean I definitely won't do it again, and I should have just suffered through or taken the other stuff, but changing my date? That seems a little extreme.
I don't know. What would you do?
However, in the morning, it bothered me. First, because it wasn't my prescription. Second, because I had non-alcoholic kind and didn't take it. Third, I didn't give too much thought to it. I just wanted to sleep and I wanted something that I KNEW would work quickly and well, so I took some.
I have considered changing my sobriety date (because it's still kind of bothering me), but that doesn't really feel right either. I mean, I took a substance to treat a condition, not to get high. I didn't over-do it, AT ALL. I'm 185 pounds and took a slightly higher dose than the one intended for a 45 pound kid. And the very next night, when my cough was less bad, I took the non-alcoholic kind and of course, haven't taken it again.
Maybe what's bothering me is that I took a potentially dangerous substance (for a drunk like me) without any thought? Maybe it's the curious mental blank spot? I mean I definitely won't do it again, and I should have just suffered through or taken the other stuff, but changing my date? That seems a little extreme.
I don't know. What would you do?
I'm an AA person so.......I'd call my sponsor. Then I'd do a 10th step..... I'm resentful at: myself, The causes: knowingly taking cough syrup with codeine in it, etc., etc. Then I'd pray about it and stuff. Then I'd do what my sponsor suggests I do.
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Oh, yeah. Forgot to mention that. I'm in AA too. Sorry. I talked to my sponsor about it. She says "to thine own self be true." And you're right. I need to do an inventory on it. I'm getting up to do it now. Thank you very much.
I think your intention was to treat your cough, not to get a buzz. But definitely think about how you took it without thought about it containing codeine.
We have to be super diligent about what we put in our bodies. Never know what could trigger us to wanting more of it
We have to be super diligent about what we put in our bodies. Never know what could trigger us to wanting more of it
No, I wouldn't reset my sober date on that experience with the cough syrup. I would take a look though on why I am bothered enough to think about resetting my date. I mean, like your saying, you could have taken an alternative. You didn't, and now you're bothered about your actions and responsibilites.
You mention the mental blankness as perhaps being a cause for your choices. I think you would do well to continue to look into yourself, and chase that down, follow it to its conclusion. Being concerned about a spoonful of cough syrup after 3.5 years of sobriety is in itself, imo, something that is troublesome, and may indicate some deeper frustrations with the quality of your sobriety.
Sometimes we just need to know a bit more about ourselves to resolve these kinds of challenges when we feel we have perhaps frigged up enough to change our sober date. Happy hunting. No worries. Take advantage of having 3.5 years, and be all that you can be for yourself!
You mention the mental blankness as perhaps being a cause for your choices. I think you would do well to continue to look into yourself, and chase that down, follow it to its conclusion. Being concerned about a spoonful of cough syrup after 3.5 years of sobriety is in itself, imo, something that is troublesome, and may indicate some deeper frustrations with the quality of your sobriety.
Sometimes we just need to know a bit more about ourselves to resolve these kinds of challenges when we feel we have perhaps frigged up enough to change our sober date. Happy hunting. No worries. Take advantage of having 3.5 years, and be all that you can be for yourself!
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I'm a member of Alcoholics Anonymous not codeine anonymous.
You did not mention if alcohol was also an ingrediate
If I delibertly drank alcohol...I would re set my date
more importantly....I would be checking out why I was
chooseing to use alcohol again..
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You did not mention if alcohol was also an ingrediate
If I delibertly drank alcohol...I would re set my date
more importantly....I would be checking out why I was
chooseing to use alcohol again..
Welcome to our recovery community...
Acg,
Have you started drinking cough syrup as a method of coping with life? Your sobriety date is something you set and quite frankly you are really the only one concerned with when it is. Those around you are concerned with how you as the person you are interact with them.
If you are still the same person living a sober life that you were when you took the cough syrup then it is your sobriety that makes you who you are, not when you attained it.
I have been sober 13 years on this Oct. 15th. I got and stay sober with the HELP of AA and the people in it, but my length of sober LIVING is only of importance to me, and I must admit not as big a deal as it used to be. My life and the way I live is critical to me EVERYDAY.
DON'T GET SO BUSY KEEPING SCORE THAT YOU FORGET TO PLAY THE GAME!
Just my thoughts, may not be in line with other's opinions and in fact may even not be the best you will read, but I came up with them using an unclouded mind, and that is what I strive for.
Jon
Have you started drinking cough syrup as a method of coping with life? Your sobriety date is something you set and quite frankly you are really the only one concerned with when it is. Those around you are concerned with how you as the person you are interact with them.
If you are still the same person living a sober life that you were when you took the cough syrup then it is your sobriety that makes you who you are, not when you attained it.
I have been sober 13 years on this Oct. 15th. I got and stay sober with the HELP of AA and the people in it, but my length of sober LIVING is only of importance to me, and I must admit not as big a deal as it used to be. My life and the way I live is critical to me EVERYDAY.
DON'T GET SO BUSY KEEPING SCORE THAT YOU FORGET TO PLAY THE GAME!
Just my thoughts, may not be in line with other's opinions and in fact may even not be the best you will read, but I came up with them using an unclouded mind, and that is what I strive for.
Jon
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Thank you guys so much. read all these responses and I find them really helpful. And I'm really going to think about why I'm so bothered by it...an inventory would probably be a good move. It's weird, I've been like obsessing about it and I can't figure out why. Like there's this feeling in me that wants to just call the whole AA thing off because of cough syrup, which I should have been more thoughtful about. But I wasn't, and now I can't let it go. Yes, I definitely need to do an inventory.
Acg,
Have you started drinking cough syrup as a method of coping with life? Your sobriety date is something you set and quite frankly you are really the only one concerned with when it is. Those around you are concerned with how you as the person you are interact with them.
If you are still the same person living a sober life that you were when you took the cough syrup then it is your sobriety that makes you who you are, not when you attained it.
I have been sober 13 years on this Oct. 15th. I got and stay sober with the HELP of AA and the people in it, but my length of sober LIVING is only of importance to me, and I must admit not as big a deal as it used to be. My life and the way I live is critical to me EVERYDAY.
DON'T GET SO BUSY KEEPING SCORE THAT YOU FORGET TO PLAY THE GAME!
Just my thoughts, may not be in line with other's opinions and in fact may even not be the best you will read, but I came up with them using an unclouded mind, and that is what I strive for.
Jon
Have you started drinking cough syrup as a method of coping with life? Your sobriety date is something you set and quite frankly you are really the only one concerned with when it is. Those around you are concerned with how you as the person you are interact with them.
If you are still the same person living a sober life that you were when you took the cough syrup then it is your sobriety that makes you who you are, not when you attained it.
I have been sober 13 years on this Oct. 15th. I got and stay sober with the HELP of AA and the people in it, but my length of sober LIVING is only of importance to me, and I must admit not as big a deal as it used to be. My life and the way I live is critical to me EVERYDAY.
DON'T GET SO BUSY KEEPING SCORE THAT YOU FORGET TO PLAY THE GAME!
Just my thoughts, may not be in line with other's opinions and in fact may even not be the best you will read, but I came up with them using an unclouded mind, and that is what I strive for.
Jon
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Hi. I've been sober for 3.5 years. A couple weeks ago, I was sick with a really bad cough - the flu. I had been up all night coughing, really needed some sleep. It was 3am and I had to get up and go to school and work (and help my kids) in the morning. Though I had some non-alcoholic Robitussin in my kitchen, I wanted something stronger because that stuff doesn't really help me. So, I took a small dose of my son's cough medicine, which is the kind with codeine. I took about 7 ml (5ml was a child's dose) and went back to bed, and slept.
However, in the morning, it bothered me. First, because it wasn't my prescription. Second, because I had non-alcoholic kind and didn't take it. Third, I didn't give too much thought to it. I just wanted to sleep and I wanted something that I KNEW would work quickly and well, so I took some.
I have considered changing my sobriety date (because it's still kind of bothering me), but that doesn't really feel right either. I mean, I took a substance to treat a condition, not to get high. I didn't over-do it, AT ALL. I'm 185 pounds and took a slightly higher dose than the one intended for a 45 pound kid. And the very next night, when my cough was less bad, I took the non-alcoholic kind and of course, haven't taken it again.
Maybe what's bothering me is that I took a potentially dangerous substance (for a drunk like me) without any thought? Maybe it's the curious mental blank spot? I mean I definitely won't do it again, and I should have just suffered through or taken the other stuff, but changing my date? That seems a little extreme.
I don't know. What would you do?
However, in the morning, it bothered me. First, because it wasn't my prescription. Second, because I had non-alcoholic kind and didn't take it. Third, I didn't give too much thought to it. I just wanted to sleep and I wanted something that I KNEW would work quickly and well, so I took some.
I have considered changing my sobriety date (because it's still kind of bothering me), but that doesn't really feel right either. I mean, I took a substance to treat a condition, not to get high. I didn't over-do it, AT ALL. I'm 185 pounds and took a slightly higher dose than the one intended for a 45 pound kid. And the very next night, when my cough was less bad, I took the non-alcoholic kind and of course, haven't taken it again.
Maybe what's bothering me is that I took a potentially dangerous substance (for a drunk like me) without any thought? Maybe it's the curious mental blank spot? I mean I definitely won't do it again, and I should have just suffered through or taken the other stuff, but changing my date? That seems a little extreme.
I don't know. What would you do?
A big IF, of course...as I would NOT take someone else's narcotic medication. If you ask enough people "if taking someone else's narcotic meds (if an alkie) or drinking wine (if a crack addict) is ok" you will get the answer you want to hear. Talking to sponsor is probably a better bet.
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I would explore my motives thoroughly. I already have in place the idea that I am NEVER to take someone else's prescription medication, among other things that I have in place to keep me safe. And if I were on SR, asking others what they thought......for me that would be a red flag. I would talk to my sponsor and get his/her take.
A big IF, of course...as I would NOT take someone else's narcotic medication. If you ask enough people "if taking someone else's narcotic meds (if an alkie) or drinking wine (if a crack addict) is ok" you will get the answer you want to hear. Talking to sponsor is probably a better bet.
A big IF, of course...as I would NOT take someone else's narcotic medication. If you ask enough people "if taking someone else's narcotic meds (if an alkie) or drinking wine (if a crack addict) is ok" you will get the answer you want to hear. Talking to sponsor is probably a better bet.
But you're right, I DO feel weird about it, and it IS weird that I'm online asking about it. I guess the bottom line is I feel lost anyway, and I'm not sure if it's BECAUSE of the cough syrup or because I'm spiritually unfit right now and just blaming the cough syrup. Not sure if that makes sense.
I need to sit down and do an inventory. I'm going to do it now.
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