Quote from a movie that stuck in my head..
 

Thelma 'Sister' Husband: Harry, we're alcoholics, we're generally satisfied to hurt ourselves. ...this is a quote from the movie Where the Heart is...I seen this movie years ago, this is the one line that stuck in my head....hmmm wonder why? ..maybe because it hit home for me.....I am on day 80!!!... Starting to love myself instead of hurting myself.

Nel, that is fabolous. Have a beautiful sober day.

We all should love ourselves.. Just like God loves us.

Something similar happens to people stuck in an abusive relationship. It is more comfortable to know the pain the ways things are to take on the burden of change.

"God grant me... the courage to change".