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Old 12-05-2011, 07:41 AM
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Red face What was said to you that helped in the begining?

I remember someone saying " What other people think about me is none of my business." That stuck with me. What ws said to you that helped you get past the first month?
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Old 12-05-2011, 07:43 AM
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Old 12-05-2011, 07:44 AM
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I was very lost, and someone said "Your soul has a purpose in this life. You just need to be quiet and listen". This allowed me to let go of my control-freak issues and to feel sure that I did indeed belong here.
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"Just for today" helped me immensely. I find huge comfort in that thought and go over it a lot. I don't have to think/worry/obsess about not drinking for the rest of my life. I don't have to play out future events without alchohol and wonder HOW??? All I have to do is get through today. All I have to worry about is here and now.
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"cravings only last about 7 minutes". "Your liver is a remarkable organ and can heal itself".
"You look like a different person, you smile now"
"you will start to sleep better"
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Old 12-05-2011, 07:51 AM
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Old 12-05-2011, 07:55 AM
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Old 12-05-2011, 08:05 AM
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Old 12-05-2011, 08:13 AM
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Old 12-05-2011, 08:16 AM
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You are not alone.

Normal drinkers don't obsess over alcohol. They can take it or leave it.
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Old 12-05-2011, 09:14 AM
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In regards to one's drinking...

If you are trying to control it, it's already out of control.
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Old 12-05-2011, 09:18 AM
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These are all great.
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Old 12-05-2011, 09:26 AM
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"a grateful drunk will never drink again"...i try to count my blessings and give thanks for being so fortunate every single day, whether here or elsewhere. the "attitude of gratitude" goes a long way for me
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"Your liver is failing."
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God bless the support of fellow alcoholics and AA

1. You just don't drink TODAY.
2. You don't have to drink.
3. Let us love you until you can love yourself.
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Old 12-05-2011, 11:16 AM
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"That's your addictive voice talking." Mine had a lot to say. lol
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Old 12-05-2011, 12:05 PM
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Wow Switchboard...that's harsh. Glad you're here and posting.

Drivenheart, that made me lol. Ha ha
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"For things to change, first you must change."

A wise man my father.
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