Anxiety About AA
Anxiety About AA
Today is the second time I'll be attending an evening AA group (this one meets once a week). I realized that both today and last week I was so anxious during the day. I get afraid for some reason of how the meeting will go and how the people will be and whether I'll get emotional etc. For some reason I can't concentrate on anything else all day. I got absoluteyl nothing productive done today!!
Last time I went, once I was in the thick of things I was fine, but leading up to that I just felt anxious and unfocused and overwhelmed. Does this happen to anyone else? I think I should try to find a morning group so I can start my day out with the meeting and get it out of the way and hopefully feel relaxed all day instead of anxious (I also would like to become more of a morning person and have a regular, earlier sleep schedule, which I think will help my anxiety-related sleep disorder). But I also have a goal of exercising first thing in the morning (not that I've been accomplishing it!) so maybe a lunch meeting would be good, to break up the hectic day. I suppose I could do a morning meeting and a lunch workout, or vice versa.
Last time I went, once I was in the thick of things I was fine, but leading up to that I just felt anxious and unfocused and overwhelmed. Does this happen to anyone else? I think I should try to find a morning group so I can start my day out with the meeting and get it out of the way and hopefully feel relaxed all day instead of anxious (I also would like to become more of a morning person and have a regular, earlier sleep schedule, which I think will help my anxiety-related sleep disorder). But I also have a goal of exercising first thing in the morning (not that I've been accomplishing it!) so maybe a lunch meeting would be good, to break up the hectic day. I suppose I could do a morning meeting and a lunch workout, or vice versa.
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Happens to me almost everytime! Seriously! Exactly like you said...
I have to really muster up the courage to go to meetings (worried about what people will think of me, do I have enemies there, will I know anyone etc...) all unfounded...
and everytime I come home I feel so much better.
Thanks for posting
I have to really muster up the courage to go to meetings (worried about what people will think of me, do I have enemies there, will I know anyone etc...) all unfounded...
and everytime I come home I feel so much better.
Thanks for posting
Chin up, PT. Those initial AA meetings would be nervewrecking in the best of cases simply because of what AA is (i.e. an addiction recovery program). How much more so in the case of the typical alcoholic who enters the program from a place of great brokenness.
You are doing greatly.
You are doing greatly.
Happens to me almost everytime! Seriously! Exactly like you said...
I have to really muster up the courage to go to meetings (worried about what people will think of me, do I have enemies there, will I know anyone etc...) all unfounded...
and everytime I come home I feel so much better.
Thanks for posting
I have to really muster up the courage to go to meetings (worried about what people will think of me, do I have enemies there, will I know anyone etc...) all unfounded...
and everytime I come home I feel so much better.
Thanks for posting
I like the meeting I went to last Tuesday evening. It was a small group of very helpful women, and a friend that I made quite awhile ago at an AA meeting (I stopped going for a long spurt) invited me and is going again tonight too. But I think I need something earlier in the day so that this anxiety doesn't impede my work performance/overall concentration. Thank you for letting me know I'm not alone!
Chin up, PT. Those initial AA meetings would be nervewrecking in the best of cases simply because of what AA is (i.e. an addiction recovery program). How much more so in the case of the typical alcoholic who enters the program from a place of great brokenness.
You are doing greatly.
You are doing greatly.
Pigtails, I don't go to AA meetings, but I do know that balance in my life has helped me a lot. If you are feeling stressed on days you go to meetings, maybe you can take some time to exercise or get out of the office for awhile.
Good to know, because right now I sometimes feel like I have even more anxiety/stress/emotional topsy-turviness than I did when I was drinking. I am trying to ride it out but it is quite a ride.
Sobriety is so, so worth it. Life is not meant to be wafted through while enveloped in the fog of alcoholic oblivion.
Before having the steps in my life, I was full of self-centered fears and expectations. I was anxious all of the time, worse going to AA.
Today is much different for me!
You're in a room full of anxious people!
Today is much different for me!
You're in a room full of anxious people!
I know this sounds rude, but when i get anxious about something I often times say to myself: Look at all the other jacka$$es who have done [insert task here]. They're no smarter than me, so why can't I? Why should I be worried?
I'm glad to hear there's hope. Yes, it's self-centered and I can't break free of my own worries/distractions/unnamed fears. I would love to break free of them.
It's an awesome way to start your day - it really gives it a centered focus and purpose for the rest of the day.
I know this sounds rude, but when i get anxious about something I often times say to myself: Look at all the other jacka$$es who have done [insert task here]. They're no smarter than me, so why can't I? Why should I be worried?
I know this sounds rude, but when i get anxious about something I often times say to myself: Look at all the other jacka$$es who have done [insert task here]. They're no smarter than me, so why can't I? Why should I be worried?
I went to my first meeting in a long time this morning pigtails. I did the just put one foot in front of the other technique. For example, I was saying to myself, "you don't have to go, but, lets get in the car and drive that way". I did this until I finally got into the meeting and it turned out being pretty good actually. I plan on going back tomorrow actually. One of the reasons I used to drink was to stay out of situations like that unless I was drunk. Lol. Sometimes we have to step outside our comfort zones to get what we want.
I went to my first meeting in a long time this morning pigtails. I did the just put one foot in front of the other technique. For example, I was saying to myself, "you don't have to go, but, lets get in the car and drive that way". I did this until I finally got into the meeting and it turned out being pretty good actually. I plan on going back tomorrow actually. One of the reasons I used to drink was to stay out of situations like that unless I was drunk. Lol. Sometimes we have to step outside our comfort zones to get what we want.
I think I should try to find a morning group so I can start my day out with the meeting and get it out of the way and hopefully feel relaxed all day instead of anxious (I also would like to become more of a morning person and have a regular, earlier sleep schedule, which I think will help my anxiety-related sleep disorder). But I also have a goal of exercising first thing in the morning (not that I've been accomplishing it!)
Once I started that schedule, I no longer had any issues sleeping.
I really believe that AA saved my life.
Good luck to you.
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