dawnie24

I'm dribkib I thought I could do it but all my bf as been doin all day is argu with me .. Today we were in the mall (shoppin centre) he shouts your not ****** gettin that , shoutin the ****** dog don't need a collar, when shoppin for food he yelled goin get what we ****** need...
Its been all day like that I feel so embarrassed he had ago at my mother.
Why oh why I feel like cryin

doggonecarl

Don't let a crummy relationship sink your recovery. If you drink everytime your boyfriend is a jerk, you'll never get sober. Stay sober, ride out your emotions (a lot of which has to do with being in early recovery) and get better. Your kids need you sober. You need you sober!

Good luck.

tanja

Hi Dawnie,

Sorry to hear that you've been drinking. Perhaps, tomorrow you could make a list of your triggers that lead to drinking. You might also try to come up with other ways to soothe or nuture yourself in trigger situations.

Take care of yourself and don't give up!

BullDog777

my wife is from NY city. alot of new yorkers are famous for having hot tempers. she yells sometimes and dosen't even realize it. early on, it was really annoying because i was thin skinned as it was.

maybe just remind him that you're fragile right now and for him to mind his manners.
hope you feel better soon.

KellyToronto

Yes, I would make up a list of triggers, they suggested that when I was in rehab.

Hope you do better,

Kelly

dawnie24

Thank you all for replies but ill make a stat bout me n him ok its complicated n mssed up

Hevyn

Dawnie, you can get back that great attitude you had. Come on, try again. Nothing is made better by drinking - you need a clear head to figure things out. You can do it, and have a better life.

Dee74

I agree with doggone Dawnie - I know todays been rough but if you drink everytime your boyfriend's a plonker, you'll never get sober

I miss that great attitude you had too - you can do this Dawnie

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dawnie24

Thank you

I know tomorrow ill regret it and I'm gonna look at what I've said n believe me ill regret

ArgentOfSilvae

I truly hope you wake up tomorrow Dawnie and come back

You can do it!

AoS

TheEnd

So your boyfriend makes you feel like crap, and then you drink which will probably make you feel like crap. Think of that logic.

Anna

Dawnie, you can find new and healthy ways to get through these annoying times.

dawnie24

I regret drinkin I feel like a fool and a total idiot and I'm gona have words with the bf today

Dee74

Glad you sound better today tho Dawnie

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dawnie24

I feel like crap and my 2 eldest kids have work the baby up and all they keep doin is messin and not listenin to a word I say ... And as for me n bf sometimes we have our arguments etc

ArgentOfSilvae

Wb Dawnie

dawnie24

Hey I jus realised how I spelt drinkin haha omg but think I've learnt not to do that again I want that other thread to be deleted :o

ArgentOfSilvae

The bf one? I'm not sure on the policies here, but you could always ask one of the site team Dee or Anna, perhaps they could answer it for you.

AoS

dawnie24

Its ok now dee deleted it

Jallen83

Hi Dawnie,
I'm on day 4 here.
Just keep reminding yourself that your worst day sober is always better than your best day drinking.
You can do it!