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Old 03-23-2011, 04:39 PM
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I am literally a second away from picking up the car keys and driving to the liquor store. I've had so many failed attempts at this. and I'm On day 5 again and really not wanting to fail again... but my willpower is starting to wear thin
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Old 03-23-2011, 04:42 PM
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Willpower will not work for the alcoholic, because you are powerless. How about hopping in the car and heading to an AA meeting instead??
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Old 03-23-2011, 04:42 PM
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Put down the keys, and look up the nearest, soonest AA meeting.

To give you something to do until the meeting starts, try reading some of the Big Book online.

Hope that was fast enough for ya.
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Old 03-23-2011, 04:43 PM
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Quick - jump in the shower and take a warm soak. By the time you are out and dry the urge will have passed!
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Old 03-23-2011, 04:45 PM
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Do whatever you have to in order to keep from going to the liquor store. Take off all your clothes and jump in the shower. Take the dog for a walk (after you get dressed again ), eat something, mow the yard...anything! Just let it pass. It will pass and you'll be so proud of yourself that you didn't give in.

That idea about finding an AA meeting was good, too.
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Old 03-23-2011, 04:51 PM
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Drink some water....eat ...brush your teeth...a bubble bath is calming.

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Old 03-23-2011, 04:57 PM
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How's it going, Holly? Hope you're in the shower.
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Old 03-23-2011, 05:06 PM
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What I love about our recovery program is
that we never have to go at this alone or by
ourselves. For me I tried to stop drinking many
many times by myself to only fail many many
times.

Today Im glad to have a place like SR to go to
everyday, every minute, hour if i need it. There's
always some one here to help me and guide me
thru situations that I need help with.

Same for you. Welcome.
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Old 03-23-2011, 05:07 PM
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Hang in there holly please dont take that drink.
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Old 03-23-2011, 05:09 PM
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Drink some hot tea. Find something to occupy your mind for just 15 or 30 minutes. Then when that time passes figure out how to delay another 15 or 30. Rinse and repeat and the craving will subside.
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Old 03-23-2011, 06:12 PM
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I don't really get those urges to drink anymore unless I'm bored.... I have routines I stay in. I will watch the same movies and music videos over and over if they inspire me. Right now I'm watching Good Will Hunting while I eat and post. I like to exercise too. Drinking screws up my working, exercising and inspirational stuff i'm into, so it pretty much screws anything I care about, so its not that hard these days for me to stay away from the stuff. Lately anyway. My demons are probably doing jumping jacks waiting for me to drop my guard.
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Old 03-23-2011, 06:20 PM
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I used to be like that but by working the steps, the obsession went away after a few months. It really is incredible.
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Old 03-23-2011, 09:14 PM
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At certain times I have no effective mental defense against the first drink, it must come from a power greater than myself. Since I don't know what "certain times" look like, I must M U S T follow the course of action outlined by the Big Book of Alcoholic's Anonymous. These actions keep me in fit spiritual condition, and in that condition it has been my experience that it is impossible to drink.
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Old 03-23-2011, 09:19 PM
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Thinking of you.


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