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Old 09-30-2010, 03:02 PM
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What is an "oldtimer"

...and what does it take to qualify? When does one stop being a "newcomer"?
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Old 09-30-2010, 03:06 PM
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where i went to aa was pretty hardcore, and usually the newcomers were still inside a month...oldtimers had 20+ years. it's different in alot of places
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Old 09-30-2010, 04:33 PM
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As far as I know....there is no set timeline for either.

AA joke..."How do you get to be an oldtimer?
Don't drink and don't die"

Personally...I consider anyone in their first 3 months a Newcomer.
Old timers have double digit years of recovery.

Tho...since I became an old timer....I perfer the term
"elder"......
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Old 09-30-2010, 06:31 PM
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I've usually considered people with 20-plus years an "oldtimer". I consider "newcomers" to be those with 90 days or fewer (the first time around--I wouldn't consider someone coming back after "going out" after a substantial time sober to be a "newcomer" although they would be "newly sober").

Custom probably varies from place to place.

What I found interesting is that there are now so many "oldtimers" at the AA International Convention, they keep upping the number of years to qualify. At this year's Convention, it was only those with forty-plus years who were designated "oldtimers" for the "Oldtimer's Meeting". There were over 500 of them at the Convention!!
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Old 09-30-2010, 07:21 PM
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yeah an old timer would have 20 years+ for me too...
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Old 09-30-2010, 07:43 PM
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Well, I feel like an oldtimer, but that's because I'm over 50, lol.

22 days today, still a young punk, lol.
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Old 09-30-2010, 09:11 PM
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I USED to think all the older members were "the oldtimers" --still slip into that trap sometimes.

I've been blessed with some reeeeally strong members in my life lately..... one with 50+, 2 with 30, 1 @ 24, 1@23, 1 @ 19 and a bunch around 12 - 15 yrs that are all close friends. Honestly, that one guy @ 51 throws "my" oldtimer's curve off but I'd call an "old timer" anyone with 40+ I only know a couple - most don't make it that long
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Old 09-30-2010, 10:12 PM
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Well, I feel like an oldtimer, but that's because I'm over 50, lol.
22 days today, still a young punk, lol.
You crack me up, firestorm! Or maybe I'm laughing because I can relate!
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