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Old 09-22-2009, 04:19 PM
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SPONSORS' dont you just love em ?

be intrested to hear some of your best sponsor quotes or suggestions.
heres a couple of mine.

sponcee to sponsor" whats wrong with me going to bars? (sponsor) if you go into a hairdressers enough eventually you'll get a hair cut !! (sponcee) yeah, but every now and then you need to get your hair cut. (sponsor) not when your trying to grow your hair you dont !!.

(sponcee) what am i doing wrong ? (sponsor) everything !!.

(sponsor to sponcee) theres good news and bad news, the good news is you only have to change one thing.

the bad news is, its everything !!
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Old 09-22-2009, 04:22 PM
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Ha I love it

I remember crying with my sponsor about a relationship break up and she told me "I hate to tell you my dear but there are plenty more tears to come...and worse things can happen..."

What she went onto say was that she would teach me how to deal with them all

And she has

Love my sponsor - more than I love cake lol
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Old 09-22-2009, 05:14 PM
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My sponsor used to tell me, "Just put one foot in front of the other!"

I was sitting in a wheelchair at the time...and I still take her suggestion every day.

Peace & Love,
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Old 09-22-2009, 05:26 PM
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Favorite from my sponser

If we have one foot in yesterday and one foot in tomorrow we're taking a leak on today.
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Old 09-22-2009, 05:59 PM
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Old 09-22-2009, 06:03 PM
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When I first came around, my sponsor used to tell me.

I have a choice, focus on the half of the glass that was full instead of giving power to the disease which always wants to focus on the half that is empty.

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Old 09-22-2009, 06:28 PM
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When my sponsor got his 30 year A.A. token, he said to me "You want one of these? Here's what you do. Don't drink and don't die."

Much more often, he says "Keep coming back and we will teach you a better way to live." And he, along with a bunch of other people, have done just that.
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Old 09-22-2009, 06:49 PM
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A sponsor

Someone you don't like telling you to do things you don't understand and don't want to do in order to keep you alive after they leave
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Old 09-22-2009, 08:26 PM
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I met my sponsor on my first day of sobriety.

Near the end of my rambling, I told him "The only reason I still have my wife and job is because I'm a really nice guy".

He responded "Well...I don't think you're a very nice guy".

Keep in mind that I was only a few hours sober - let the ego deflation begin!
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Old 09-22-2009, 11:15 PM
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My usual convo will start with me stating that i believe in x and i don't care what anyone thinks this is what i believe...then 5 minutes later believeing whatever the hell my sponsor has told me and doing it...i've learned to be very open minded and willing!

He is quite keen on...if you want my help and are willing to do what i say then you can stay sober and have a good life, if not then **** off down to the bar, i'll even give you the money for your first drink...although he doesn't say that about me so much anymore:-)

He's a real little gift from God and i love him to bits!
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Old 09-23-2009, 01:38 AM
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mine told me when I was new
it is a good suggestion to listen for the first year,but in your case,it`s mandatory


you`ve lost all of your marbles,it is gonna take you a year to find them and 2 years to learn how to play with them again
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Old 09-23-2009, 01:40 AM
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and he walked up to me one day,and bluntly said to me
can`t teach you nothing,you know it all already
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Old 09-23-2009, 02:56 AM
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Me (after phoning him up) "I don't wanna talk... I'm just gonna start whining like a *****"
My sponsor "Its alright whats going on."

After my 5th step "You did good work today"

Ah I am permanently indebted to my sponsor. In the first month especially he talked me down from the cliff of relapse many times. I am so grateful for all he has done for me. Yeah you gotta love good sponsors.
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Old 09-23-2009, 07:32 AM
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Newguy: 'I don't know how to pray. I don't know what to say."
Sponsor: 'I don't care. Pray anyway.'
Newguy: 'Yeah, but, I feel stupid.'
Sponsor: 'I don't care. Pray anyway.'

Best thing my not very warm and fuzzy sponsor ever said, early in my sobriety, was 'I love you Keith'.
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