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Old 05-03-2009, 11:49 AM
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Well, I do believe I've found my personal bottom... Of course, whatever the last "enough!" was, it wasn't enough. Now- My husband has actually called me an alcoholic, we've had several fights this week about it, He found out how much in debt we are due to bad financial handling on my end (not the direct result of addiction- like- the money didn't go to buy booze), and threatened very seriously to leave.

I am sick and tired of coming back here and starting over. If I were you guys, I'd be sick of me too. But- if I leave and come back again, I know it will be to say I lost my husband and it was my own damn fault.

I am ready to fight like hell for my marriage and my sobriety and could use all the help I can get.

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Old 05-03-2009, 01:04 PM
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Welcome back, I hope you find what ever it takes to win the fight.
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Old 05-03-2009, 01:12 PM
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Old 05-03-2009, 02:05 PM
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Hi sunrise... Glad you found your way back.

Have you ever gone to AA? SR is great, but some kind of recovery program is so helpful. Sounds like you could use some support!

Are you sober now?

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Old 05-03-2009, 04:11 PM
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I do hope you can find sobriety.....
What is your plan?

Money or no money...husband or no husband
you deserve a sober peaceful life.

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Old 05-03-2009, 05:22 PM
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Old 05-03-2009, 06:13 PM
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All I can say, is start attending meetings on regular basis... For me, it was critical to find a group that I could relate to and actually enjoy spending time with.. These days I look forward to my 3-4 meetings/week..
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