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Old 01-24-2009, 10:12 AM
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i made it through my first party SOBER!!!

Hey everyone!

SO, last night was interesting, to say the least. I got a call around midnight from my roommate (who is 21) and she was clearly wasted. I kicked into "got to get her home" mode, and went over to the apartment where she was and everyone was drunk (someone was turning 21 there) and I made it through 2 hours of having to deal with drunk people!

I was in a great spiritual place, and I called a lot of people in the program before I went, AND my mom and I ended up feeling great - plus I was the only one there whose makeup was not smudged, and who wasn't falling over everyone!

I'm very proud! I definitely wouldn't go to a party unless I had clear motives and I was spiritually fit though.

Any other similar experiences?:ghug
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Old 01-24-2009, 10:18 AM
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I manage to go to karaoke now and then and not drink. It does make it easier if I'm emotionally fit.
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Old 01-24-2009, 10:32 AM
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Good for you.. that stuff is hard.

I don't put myself in drinking situations unless I *HAVE* to, sounds like you had a great plan (mentally), and were able to get your roomie home safe. KUDOS to you.

I never want to 'test' myself with this stuff, but the reality is, a lot of people drink, and we will have to be around it sometimes. Good job.. doesn't it feel great to come out alive and well?

Proud of you!
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Old 01-24-2009, 11:37 AM
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Congrats on taking care of your friend and staying sober as well...... Kind of interesting isn't it? I have found that if I am drinking I am pretty much useless, but sober I am useful!!! Even to a drunk friend! LOL
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Old 01-24-2009, 01:37 PM
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Good to know you came home sober...
congratulations!
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Old 01-24-2009, 03:41 PM
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Good job! That's my hardest challenge now that I don't drink. It has seriously cut into my social life on the weekends. I now find myself making excuses why I am not going out with my friends at night. Going to parties and bars are hard for me. I get really bored quick when I do go, and there is too much temptation when everyone is drinking. Congratulations on your accomplishment.
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Old 01-24-2009, 04:08 PM
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Good For you!!!!Congrats
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Old 01-24-2009, 04:33 PM
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Old 01-25-2009, 11:44 AM
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right on chica .... proud of yah .. keep it up !
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Old 01-25-2009, 11:46 AM
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thanks everyone!!
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Old 01-25-2009, 12:16 PM
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Strong work!
Very intelligent, awesome prep-work and execution.
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Old 01-25-2009, 12:59 PM
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Congrats!!!
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Old 01-25-2009, 08:42 PM
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Awesome! Good for you and all the best in the future!
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Old 01-26-2009, 09:33 AM
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You were great! I also attended my first party, and didn't drink anything. And was actually annoyed to watch my sister all stubling around!
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Way to go. Not a small thing at all.
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