Timebuster

By your wife flowers and give her a big hug and thank her for being there for you when you couldn’t be there for yourself.

When you finish your moral inventory you will come to understand were that anger and resentments are really coming from. Its not from that party trust me.

Stay strong
Ivan

coffeenut

Very interesting thread!

Rob, I loved your comment about being ashamed of sobriety! How the hell does that happen?!

You aren't out of line. You are just treading water in this sobriety adventure. Be kind to yourself. AND, to your wife.

Omega Man

Your dead on with that statement. In the past, I've been carried to the car and laughed about it the next day but when I walked to the car sober yesterday I had my head down and felt like a loser.

Thank God for AA, I'm a sick puppy with some work to do!

collinsmi

Do something nice for your wife and try not to worry about/think about how you felt. It's what you do that has value, not how you feel. We have to quit seeing ourselves as victims.

miss communicat

glad to see that today you are moving past this and are staying sober and growing!

AWEDA

I'm sure your wife was pretty p***ed off about some of the things you have done. Go easy on her,she is trying to survive too.