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Old 10-11-2008, 07:03 PM
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Brother in ICU

Have not been around here for a bit. My brother was on a motor scooter and hit a car head on. Fractured cheek, upper leg, broken hip, head trama collapsed lung. He has been sedated since last sunday night. We just found out he will be ok. They stopped doing cat scans yesterday.

I know he was drunk. He has not been without a drink in years. He was going up hill on the wrong side of the road. I'm sad that my brother thinks he will die drinking. And this almost killed him. He has never tried to stop. He is only 43.

I hate that he drinks, but I cannot control him. I hope this will make him wake up and see that he can stop.
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Old 10-11-2008, 07:20 PM
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Oh my....how lucky he is alive!
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Old 10-11-2008, 07:24 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear about your brother's accident. It is heart wrenching to watch a loved one struggle with this disease. Sometimes it takes catastrophe for us to see that there is another way. I hope this will bring a moment of clarity for him. Are you doing ok?
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You've got my prayers. I'm very sorry to hear this news of the accident. Hopefully, it will open his eyes.
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Old 10-11-2008, 07:43 PM
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Thank you

The doctors are waiting to take him off sedation because of DT's. And wanted to say the person he hit is fine. But I know they must have went through alot. Hoping my sister can contact this person.
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Old 10-11-2008, 07:56 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear this, your brother is in my prayers.
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Old 10-12-2008, 08:41 AM
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Old 10-12-2008, 10:21 AM
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I will keep you and your brother in my thoughts and prayers.

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Old 10-12-2008, 06:18 PM
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Sorry for not posting earlier. You, your brother, and your family are in my thoughts. Please let us know how he is progressing.

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Old 10-13-2008, 06:23 AM
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Originally Posted by 1963comet View Post
I hope this will make him wake up and see that he can stop.
I was thinking the same thing.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...

(A friend of mine was a troubled alcoholic because his fiance left him - he hit a tree while driving drunk and clinically died 3 times on the way to the hospital. Today he walks with a limp that will never go away, lost his brother last New Years's by being hit by a drunk driver, and his mother passed away a few month's ago from cancer. He STILL remains sober today after all of that because of that accident - I hope the same happens with your brother.)
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Old 10-13-2008, 06:38 AM
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So glad your brother is going to be okay. I pray that this was his wake up call.
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Old 10-14-2008, 10:56 AM
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My prayers and thoughts with you and your family. Stay Strong
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Old 10-14-2008, 11:14 AM
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Sorry this happened to your brother. I hope he can get on track. Damn disease --it causes so much destruction and unhappiness.
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Old 10-14-2008, 01:03 PM
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thank goodness he is still alive and will recover. sounds like this could be "the" wake-up call for him. in the meantime, my thoughts and prayers are with you and also, remember to take time for yourself.
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Old 10-15-2008, 07:15 AM
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Prayers for you and your family Comet. I also pray that this may be the wake up call for him.
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