Back from another 10 month bender
Back from another 10 month bender
You know I joined this site exactly 2 years ago to the day. I first joined because of how bad my father was with booze. Now, exactly two years later he is sober and doing great. Me, I am as bad as ever. Trying to make today day one again. I really suck at this not drinking thing......
The longest stretch I've been able to pull off was 3 months. That was two years ago. Since then I've strung together a couple weeks here and there. I can't seem to gain any momentum.
Forward we go...side by side-Rest In Peace
Join Date: Jun 2002
Location: Serene In Dixie
Posts: 36,740
....Welcome back to SR!
Good to know your Dad is doing well...
have you asked him how he found sobriety?
For me...I read "Under The Influence"
took that information
Re connected to God and AA.
I've not had another drink....
I strongly recommend the book or
it's sequal "Beyond The Influence"
Here is a link to excerpts....
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...influence.html
Good to know your Dad is doing well...
have you asked him how he found sobriety?
For me...I read "Under The Influence"
took that information
Re connected to God and AA.
I've not had another drink....
I strongly recommend the book or
it's sequal "Beyond The Influence"
Here is a link to excerpts....
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...influence.html
....Welcome back to SR!
Good to know your Dad is doing well...
have you asked him how he found sobriety?
For me...I read "Under The Influence"
took that information
Re connected to God and AA.
I've not had another drink....
I strongly recommend the book or
it's sequal "Beyond The Influence"
Here is a link to excerpts....
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...influence.html
Good to know your Dad is doing well...
have you asked him how he found sobriety?
For me...I read "Under The Influence"
took that information
Re connected to God and AA.
I've not had another drink....
I strongly recommend the book or
it's sequal "Beyond The Influence"
Here is a link to excerpts....
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...influence.html
I do have the Under the Influence book. I bought it 10 months ago when I was "trying". I'll have to dust it off and really read it this time. Thank you for your suggestions.
Great point, Rimmy. Because of my drinking i've neglected my body, my house, my education, etc.......time to put some efforts into into them among other things.
Day three. It's been easy so far. My road normally starts getting rocky after a week or two.
No doubt. By Friday the awfulness of my last bender will no longer be fresh in my mind. That's when I'll begin to rationalize the fact that I can handle and deserve a drink for working so hard this week.
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: where the streets have no name
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PS: and may I add
"you don't need a weatherman to know which way the wind is blowing"
Finishing up day 4. It was a tough day mainly because I didn't get much sleep lastnight. I really get lucky when it comes to withdrawl, my physical symptoms are long gone. Fighting the urge is what will come next for me. And on Thursday I will likely be having an argument with the alcoholic in me who will try to rationialize that it is ok to drink.
Until then, I'm gonna enjoy a brief peace. Goodnight all.
Until then, I'm gonna enjoy a brief peace. Goodnight all.
52 minutes before the liquor store closes. I just gotta make it until then and I won't drink tonight. The drink I crave is at the Liquoer store. I never thought I'd feel lucky to live in a state where hard liquoer isn't available at the same stores as beer. 50 more minutes......
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Birmingham, AL
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ruch, From your notes here you appear to be a relapse veteran and you have the vocabulary down pat. The simple truth of a new life is the willingness to finally surrender your inability to master Alcoholism on your own via help from God coupled with your good action. Are you not tired of watching the clock to see if the liquor store is closed? Are you not tired of that sickening feeling after a return to drinking? This is another example of the insanity that Alcoholism binds to every Drunk; can't live with it, can't live without it.
There is a solution.
Get a copy of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous and read, go to meetings and listen, find a quiet place and ask God to move this parasite from your life. No one but a Power Greater than you can accomplish this work in your life. I willl be thinking of you and look forward to your continued success, One Day at a Time.
Ron
There is a solution.
Get a copy of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous and read, go to meetings and listen, find a quiet place and ask God to move this parasite from your life. No one but a Power Greater than you can accomplish this work in your life. I willl be thinking of you and look forward to your continued success, One Day at a Time.
Ron
Thanks for the advice and kind words, Rufus. I have the book, I've gone to meetings, albeit not many. I am definitely willing to try more meetings.
Where I run into a problem is reading all the references to god peppered in your post. That is why I will always get stuck on step three. I have had decent suggestions....just work the first two steps also suggestions as to what I can use in place of god as my Higher Power. Definitely good suggestions. Definitely better than what I am doing. Cause you're right, this ain't gonna work. Me sitting here watching the clock every friday and saturday night is going to fail. I've been through it before and the alcohol always wins.
Where I run into a problem is reading all the references to god peppered in your post. That is why I will always get stuck on step three. I have had decent suggestions....just work the first two steps also suggestions as to what I can use in place of god as my Higher Power. Definitely good suggestions. Definitely better than what I am doing. Cause you're right, this ain't gonna work. Me sitting here watching the clock every friday and saturday night is going to fail. I've been through it before and the alcohol always wins.
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