GrouchoTheCat

I read daily from a zen meditation book.

I find that many things are universal.

Here is today's:

Don't go out looking for good deeds to do,
But if one comes your way, do not refuse.
If you meet someone who is suffering,
You must help them.

Those who follow the Tao believe in using sixteen attributes on behalf of others:

Mercy,
Gentleness,
Patience,
Nonattachment,
Control,
Skill,
Joy,
Love,
Humility,
Reflection,
Restfulness,
Seriousness,
Effort,
Controlled emotion,
Magnanimity,
and Concentration.

Whenever you need to help another, draw on these qualities.

Notice that self-sacrifice is not included in the list. You do not have to destroy yourself to help another. Your overall obligation is to complete your own journey along your personal Tao.
As long as you can offer solace to others on your same path, you have done the best that you can.

chip

Ted,
Thanks for posting this. It has inspired me today.
chip