Showing Up Drunk For A Meeting.....
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: CT
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I just saw it happen at my noon meeting.
A man showed up drunk and very upset. After he shared about what had happened, everyone was nice and said, "welcome back". Then 2 people took him into the other room and briefly talked to him. Then they all came back and sat down. Some people gave him a hug. He seemed to feel a little better after the meeting.
It was really moving. He was crying as he shared and said he didn't know where else to go because all he knows is he's safe in the rooms of AA. I think everyone's heart broke for him.
A man showed up drunk and very upset. After he shared about what had happened, everyone was nice and said, "welcome back". Then 2 people took him into the other room and briefly talked to him. Then they all came back and sat down. Some people gave him a hug. He seemed to feel a little better after the meeting.
It was really moving. He was crying as he shared and said he didn't know where else to go because all he knows is he's safe in the rooms of AA. I think everyone's heart broke for him.
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Join Date: May 2010
Location: West Bloomfield, MI
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Originally Posted by Tazman53 
"A desire to stop drinking" there are an awful lot of sober alcoholics today that attended a lot of AA meetings drunk before they got sober.
What's next, a set of qualifying questions to determine if someone is properly sober physically, mentally, and spiritually?
.....no better place FOR a drunk than an AA meeting.
I have a couple friends who find it disrespectful but I'm workin' on them.
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Join Date: Nov 2010
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There was a member of my group that was sober a long time, but went back to drinking, and has been showing up at meetings totally intoxicated.
This happened last night.
He came in half way through, and couldn't keep his balance...almost fell many times, and kept stopping himself from vomiting. It was pretty bad.
What I observed was people watching him. The men especially watched him.
At one point he left to smoke and came back in finding a new spot to sit. One man pointed him back to the original chair where his belongings were. I could see that these men had their eye on him, knew what was happening, and were going to take control.
I am glad, because it made me quite nervous.
Like I didn't know what to do.
It is sad to see someone that once held a secretary position, and was sober for months, maybe even a year, so intoxicated.
Maybe I needed to see this.
What a difference.
I think of him today, and hope he will be able to stop this.
This happened last night.
He came in half way through, and couldn't keep his balance...almost fell many times, and kept stopping himself from vomiting. It was pretty bad.
What I observed was people watching him. The men especially watched him.
At one point he left to smoke and came back in finding a new spot to sit. One man pointed him back to the original chair where his belongings were. I could see that these men had their eye on him, knew what was happening, and were going to take control.
I am glad, because it made me quite nervous.
Like I didn't know what to do.
It is sad to see someone that once held a secretary position, and was sober for months, maybe even a year, so intoxicated.
Maybe I needed to see this.
What a difference.
I think of him today, and hope he will be able to stop this.
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Baghdad
Posts: 2,822
I remember several decades back, the two women-they were big-dragging a guy out from a snowbank, partially underneath a car, dead drunk and into our AA club.
Last time I saw the guy he was sober, and definitely grateful, and he even confessed to having a vague recollection of me. I told him that we'd met before then related the story of our first encounter.
Last time I saw the guy he was sober, and definitely grateful, and he even confessed to having a vague recollection of me. I told him that we'd met before then related the story of our first encounter.
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Sweden
Posts: 1,649
I'd been to about 2 years of AA meetings and hadn't seen anyone intoxicated. Then there was this huge noise outside the door one night and a guy showed up drunk with a couple of suitcases and a garbage dumpster.
He lived on the street.
He showed up 5 minutes before the meeting was over. Everyone was very polite and asked him to come back sober.
They showed him a lot of respect and care and unfortunately he didn't come back. I hope he does some day.
He lived on the street.
He showed up 5 minutes before the meeting was over. Everyone was very polite and asked him to come back sober.
They showed him a lot of respect and care and unfortunately he didn't come back. I hope he does some day.
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Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Phoenix, AZ
Posts: 273
Originally Posted by FrothyJay
The disruption created by one drunk in an AA meeting pales in comparison to the disruption created by a sober person whining about their sick hamster.
I'll take the drunk anytime.
I'll take the drunk anytime.
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Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: The Sooner State
Posts: 1,725
Originally Posted by FrothyJay
The disruption created by one drunk in an AA meeting pales in comparison to the disruption created by a sober person whining about their sick hamster.
I'll take the drunk anytime.
I'll take the drunk anytime.
DOS: 11/6/10
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Florida Panhandle, USA
Posts: 736
I've never seen anything like what's been described so far, but I do smell alcohol once in a while while I'm helping to clean up at the end of the meeting. Can't tell who it is, but it happens about once a week.
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Posts: 10
Originally Posted by Veritas1
It is sad to see someone that once held a secretary position, and was sober for months, maybe even a year, so intoxicated.
Maybe I needed to see this.
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Maybe I needed to see this.
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According to the 3rd Tradition anyone is welcome at an AA meeting who has a desire to stop drinking. If someone is disruptive to the meeting itself they should probably be asked to leave. Though, we must be careful as to how we define "disruptive." There are TONS of annoying and mildly disruptive people at AA meetings. My HP sends them to meetings so that I might have an opportunity to practice patience and tolerance. For this I am very grateful.
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Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 232
I remember going to my first meeting and someone absolutely stunk of booze. I was so shocked. And i kept thinking it was weird to be drunk at an AA meeting. I mean, it was the last place I'd be hanging out with a buzz on. I think I even posted it about it here asking what the deal was. I was thinking it was a wierd place for all you people to encourage me to go.
Sorry- that was just a funny memory...
Sorry- that was just a funny memory...
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Wappingers Falls, NY
Posts: 618
Re:Showing Up Drunk For A Meeting.....
The last one actually wet himself at the meeting after falling asleep. He wasn't that embarrassed, so he said, even though I think his ego was. He has been sober for 2 years now, thanks be to God. Talk about a miracle...
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