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Today was okay, I guess.

Old 07-30-2018, 06:21 PM
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Today was okay, I guess.

I don't have any idea what to write, I tried to write a few things but I quicky gave up and deleted them.

I just don't want to do anything, I was going to workout today but it slipped out of my mind.

Let's just post some nonsense.

I woke up feeling pretty low, didn't care about my surroundings nor bothered to talk to anybody. Lots of daydreaming. Did a French test, came back home from college and straight to the laptop. I hate reality.
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Old 08-15-2018, 06:57 AM
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Hi Valentinus, how are you feeling today?
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Old 08-16-2018, 02:18 PM
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Hi Valentinus, how are you feeling today?
Neutral.
A lot better than before though.
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Old 08-17-2018, 09:19 PM
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Neutral.
A lot better than before though.
Good to hear. It sounds like you figured something out that improved your perspective?
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Old 08-19-2018, 04:11 PM
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Good to hear. It sounds like you figured something out that improved your perspective?
Kind of, as well as to be comfortable with not being OK all the time.
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Old 08-20-2018, 03:39 AM
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Hi Valentinus,

After my husband passed and someone asked how I was, I would usually answer OK.

Well, OK meant...
*I took a shower today.
*I ate at least something today.
*I managed to walk to the mailbox and collect the mail today.
*I'm alive, I'm still vertical, I'm still trudging along.

I finally managed, with the help of a grief counselor, to get to a point where I could answer "good".

Please don't hesitate to seek IRL support!! You deserve whatever effort it may take to feel good with your life
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