Why did I do this?
Thotful, it's taken me a long, long time to realize that I only have room in my life for the people who bring joy and light into my life. I took a lot of beatings, too before I saw it for what it was and said, "Enough!". We all have our limits. Take care of your wife, that beautiful unborn baby, and yourself.
dbh, thank you. I don't feel like I lost anything by talking to her. It just affirmed that she is not truly sober and I'm still sticking to my guns about protecting myself and my family. No regrets. I consider that huge growth in my program, since a few years ago I would have been a hot mess, had I decided to break NC. I'm trucking along with life as usual: my life lived on MY terms.
dbh, thank you. I don't feel like I lost anything by talking to her. It just affirmed that she is not truly sober and I'm still sticking to my guns about protecting myself and my family. No regrets. I consider that huge growth in my program, since a few years ago I would have been a hot mess, had I decided to break NC. I'm trucking along with life as usual: my life lived on MY terms.
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