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04-28-2014, 09:15 AM

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Kialua

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Originally Posted by NWGRITS

Boundaries are for YOU, not for them. You can't change other people. Just doesn't work. You're welcome to try, but it's like nailing Jell-O to a tree. Complete crazymaking.

LOL Amen to that!

05-06-2014, 03:26 PM

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What happens when the other person continuously treads on your boundaries? It builds and builds until a huge fight erupts. Some people are just vicious.

05-06-2014, 04:18 PM

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Mirage74

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Setting boundaries with some people is difficult. Some people are just self-centered and have no respect for boundaries.

05-07-2014, 12:35 AM

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Kialua

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What happens when the other person continuously treads on your boundaries? It builds and builds until a huge fight erupts. Some people are just vicious.

I limit my interaction and time with people that violate my boundaries. I am in control of who I spend my time with, and how they treat me. I physically and emotionally disconnect with boundary breakers, reward boundary keepers with my presence and pleasantness. They soon learn if they want me around or not and I appropriately oblige them and their decision making.