Originally posted by journeygal
That's the first thing I really learned to detach from - his recovery. I don't ask any of those probing questions anymore. I let him deal with his demons and I deal with my own. It wasn't easy until I just gave up out of sheer frustration. But things sure became a lot more peaceful after I did.
Journeygal, you made me chuckle with that. I am SOOOO frustrated with dh's recovery that I am about to give up, too. Of course, part of me thinks chaos will follow.
Thanks for reminding me peace will follow.
Cat