Paulmh, Maybe that is my weakness. Today, I have problems being anti anything or anyone. However, I feel in my heart that because of this I have advanced. I guess I still have too thin skin. I like fritonlay and others that have a different view. Because of this mean statements hurt, I know, I'm living in a dream world. My dream world pictures us enjoying each other being me or them. I guess this might be one of the down side of recovery, picturing everyone together.