Welcome to SR!
It's great to see you have started sobriety..Congratulations!
To answer your question..it depends on the person.
All my family are pear shaped..even the non drinkers.
I still am and I have been sober for years.
I suggest you have a check up ASAP
to have any doubts alleviated.
I am sorry for the loss of your husband...how sad.
Keep in focus..Take care..