TomsGirl, I was just thinking of you the other day and wondering how things were going. I'm sorry this is happening, but I absolutely love the way you're handling it. I see myself in your words and actions, it brings back a lot of memories (vbg). I have a deep admiration for you .... you go Girl!
So not even jail was his bottom .... as I suspected it would not be his bottom, it wasn't the bottom for my husband either. He'll hit it eventually TomsGirl, all on his own, in his own time. Sigh ........