sunshine, I felt you wouldn't mind answering my questions. Even tho a bit off topic, none of my business etc. I should have PM'd.
You just learned so fast, I was amazed, I just wanted to fill in the rest of the story. I am just really curious lots of times. About everything in the world.
I was not going anywhere with my questions, but I just knew I would catch a few remarks, knew some would think I was telling you there is hope, you knew I wasn't going to say that, too much water under the bridge. I would like to see you free of all this, as " nothing changes if nothing changes".
We loved, we can remember the good times, but that doesn't mean we can live that way.
Of course I would hope he gets sober someday so he can make amends to his childern, but I fear he hasn't learned yet. hugs