EEEEEECCCCKKKKK- I'm so glad you're getting out soon and will be moving on.
That is emotional manipulation at its finest. Some personalities are just that way- controlling and selfish. My AH was the same way for a long time. He could sneak out of the house in the middle of the night, but heaven forbid I get a phone call from a guy friend that lives in another state! Like I always said, he could dish it out, but he could not take it. What's wrong with us??? WE really should have our priorities in order *sarcasm big time* LOL. Happy Memorial Day and do something good for yourself!