Thanks for the replies. I just wanted to also share that now that I am in the city during the day, there are tons of options for therapists, and I went to my first appointment this past week. I really liked him, and he asked a lot of questions that helped me share. I also found out he happened to go to the same college I did, so he gets bonus points! My next appt is in 2 weeks. Before, I really did not understand what was meant by focusing on me. I am really getting it now. I went in with a list of 8 things I want to accomplish. I feel really good about it. Maybe I will be able to figure out who I am.