I really questions some of the like sexuality and emotions in relationships? hypersexuality and hyper vigilence???? What is compulsive use?? My recent ex started as far as I know because I was away Friday nights babysitting so one day a week then it became 2-3 and then almost daily. He also drinks a lot of alcohol. He got so erratic and more selfish contradicitons but I quess he knew enough to find a sugar mama I know that mean I just can't accept that I went through so muc and worked 30 years and can't get nothing and reall good straight up person and lucky him meets a widow 10 years younger than me, owns house, SSD income, Food Stamps and as he tellsa it if you have people come there to smoke they break off and feed the house so he has it all I sorry it was my birthday Friday and I didn't think we well I was angry but he didn'r remember my birthday . I have to sign off starting to cry