I've had to step out for a bit.
But Margo ~ you don't have to get angry with them! Your relationship with them is good now, and can stay that way. Looking to the past, we do for us, not to destroy what we have now. And to get rid of guilt that really isn't ours, that acoa's tend to carry around with them. To put the guilt where it belongs, and not live our lives today, by our reactions to past experiences.
Hugs!!
Minimize is good! I'm a pro at it ! No he didn't hit me with a closed fist, it was just a slap, so it wasn't really that bad!