Thanks friends for your encouragement!
EyesOpen - I love your analogy about the squirrel! That is just how it feels!
Yesterday in the mid afternoon my husband called me and the conversation went like this:
Hubby:I am just about packed up and ready to go.
Rose: sure you are.
Hubby:well you want me to leave.
Rose:that is not what I said.
Hubby:Then I will stay.
Rose
no response)
I have to laugh, because even when I think I am being so clear when I communicate, he doesn't hear me. He doesn't hear what he doesn't want to hear. But that is ok, as long as I know where I stand, that is the important thing. Oh and did I mention that he was in his usual state when I arrived home last night?
Happy 44th Birthday Rose! I am so happy to share another birthday with you all!!!