Old 01-26-2023, 06:45 AM
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Tombplant
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Originally Posted by Cityboy View Post
Sorry for what brings you here. He needs to straighten his addiction issues out if you are going to have any chance at a happy positive relationship together. If he can't, or won't, I think you know how that scenario is going to play out.
i don’t understand why him getting healthy would make him not want to be with me or love me anymore? Why would he promise me a week ago even when he was still using he would never abandon me and doesn’t need to end the relationship to go to recovery, and now suddenly after his surgery he doesn’t know how he will feel about me? It’s like I know he’s done this before, but the circumstances are so different. I do want him to get healthier, and him being clean before I think he can. I do not know why he doesn’t want to be with me at all anymore. those words hurt me. Like I did all of this to just be thrown out at the end of the day again/ I don’t know how to react or feel.
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