Originally Posted by Farrier

I didn't pick a sponsor merely to have a sponsor. It took me a few months to find the right fit. I listened to what other people had to say and share and essentially decided on those factors. I had several that I thought I'd found the right one, but turned out to be a dead end road, or they disappeared from meetings all together. I wanted someone solid and had several years of sobriety but also shared to some degree, a similar story to mine.