Hi Sam,
You’re not alone there, it takes time for the vast majority of us. If I can add anything to what has already been said is that for me things only really started to change when I had a good look at who I was vs who I wanted to be.
Not just a good look, an honest look too and a plan to go from one to the other. The closer I got to being who I wanted, the less appealing drinking became, to the point the desire completely disappeared.
You can do this, many of us here can testify to a much, much better life when drinking is out of the picture.