I am so sorry for the pain you are in. You are not ready to hear this, but it is true: You dodged a bullet. Just my opinion, but this guy is NOT SOBER. He never was. I'm sure he is a great guy except...Like a lot of addicts and alcoholics are, but he is not sober and having a relationship with an active addict is one long road of pain that only gets rockier as you go. Put your focus back on yourself and those children of yours and get your life back. Wish him well from a distance. Do whatever you have to do to get through the heartache and move on without this person in your life. It is what I (and a lot of others) wish we had done. I wish I had had anyone tell me what loving an alcoholic would do to me and my life. You have lots of us. I hope you can hear us. I wish you well.
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