Hi Jason, you know, it's really impossible for anyone to guess, but from what you have said, this all sounds pretty normal so far.
Right now she is focusing on herself, that can be hard to accept sometimes because couples can become very ingrained in each others lives (some of that is good, perhaps some not so good).
This is a lot for her, quitting drinking is no walk in the park. Now you are at home looking after the kids while she is being taken care of, listened to and counselled. Unfortunately the spouse at home doesn't get that advantage - your advantage is that you aren't addicted to a substance though!
She may indeed think the crypto situation is serious, but she may not be able to deal with that right now. If every alcoholic in rehab dealt with everything that flew their way while they were attempting to quit drinking, the success rate (I suspect) would be lower than it is now.
All that said, you need support too. Post here as much as you like! Have you ever attended Al Anon?
As for the crypto, does you wife have lawyer friends you might contact about that instead?