Thanks Sparklekitty, much more clearly spoken.
That love that we are seeking? We open the door within, and you need to love yourself first.
Reading your own story, and imagining that was from a friend, what could you do for him?
Thats the love and care you provide to that hurting self inside with compassion and direction. You wouldn’t suggest to your friend to stay in that destructive relationship 🥰😍