JT - no, not heartless at all in my opinion. Just the hard, cold, sad facts.
I know how much you love your son and I can only imagine how much it hurts to see your grandson suffer, but if a kick while the Beav is down is what it finally takes to get the message through to him, well....
And nothing gets
my blood pressure rocketing quite like being hung up on
I HATE that!
Love and hugs.