Thanks!!
I know he should go to AA but I suggested al-alon to him because he does not think he has a drinking problem. He thinks he is in total control and I have know idea how someone at that point will go to AA. I felt like what you said- it is a start and maybe someone other than me can suggest AA.
I am thinking of going to al-alon for myself but honestly I can't come to terms yet of being a girl that needs to go to a support group because I'm with an alcoholic. I am so scared that I have chosen this way of life. All I think about is that I should get out of this now before it gets worse because I can not amagine dealing with this all my life! Problem is I love and forgive him and I know I will be here to support him for a long time.