Old 10-27-2021, 07:12 AM
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mylifeismine
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Your situation sounds like a ticking time bomb, he is showing you who he is, that
he is capable of violence, and even being amused by letting his friends be vulgar to you.

This is so dangerous for you, why do you think this treatment towards you is
ok? You cannot change anyone but you. This is not alcohol fueled but a severe
character defect, he does not respect you, care about you, or care about the baby.
Actions, it's only the actions to watch & his actions towards you are of hate and
disgust. You getting pregnant will not magically make him want to become a
man, a man with values and good character.

Please get yourself away as soon as possible, find a safe environment for you and
your baby. You need a good support system and when the time is right, maybe
you will be able to answer the question of why YOU tolerate this horrible treatment.
Until you know the answer, you will enmesh yourself with more men like him.

Very best wishes to you and your baby.
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