Originally Posted by
PeacefulWater12 
LOL! A hearty amen to this, BeKindAlways. Me staying out of other peoples lives is the best gift of volunteering I can give.
Its nice to be here with you all who understand. Our "giving and caring " nature has a super dark side.
One thing that reveals my arrogance is that whenever anyone helps or suggests that they are helping me I see a bit of cringe or defensiveness in myself . . . . somewhere in my psyche is a belief that I am somehow better and I AM the helper. I do NOT need help. Ugh.
On that note I'm off to do a bit more yoga, put another screen back and put out my sewing things.