JT
If we are twins, separated at birth, like we think we are, how did we both end up with all the guilt? I know you got the skillet and I got the bunny slippers, but the guilt should have been divided equally, with each of us only getting half.
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You know, I have been re-reading this post several times tonight, and something I just realized is that my son doesn't even have an issue with this...he knows I don't trust him and that is okay with him LOL. If I buy him something and forget to take out the tags and receipt (like I usually do so he can't return them), he just takes them out and hands them to me.
I remember listening to a NA conference speaker named Mona (one terrific recovering addict), who even though she has been clean over 25 years, still watches her mother hide her purse when Mona goes to visit. Only today, Mona just laughs about it and accepts it.