Ann,
I am glad you brought that up because it was just under all I was trying to say. There is enough unfounded guilt to work though without adding the guilt about not trusting someone who is untrustworthy.
Ward says I am gullable and he is right. You said something somewhere else about trusting too soon and that is something I am guilty of myself. I am trying very hard to find the line between paranoia and gullability.
If I look at things at face value that should help. And that is especially essential when dealing with the addiction, recovery and sobriety.
And Meg...way to go!! You are very right!
Hugs,
JT