When I was posting on SR about my story, in one of my threads it was suggested to me by Anvil Head that she (my addict) may fit most if not all of the traits of a female sociopath. AH had posted all of the traits for me to review. Well AH as normal was correct. From there, I did some intense reading about sociopaths on other forums dedicated to the subject. Real horror stories many similar and some worse than mine. The label of sociopath fit her to a tee.
If your AH is a sociopath or psychopath you are extremely fortunate at this point regardless of how much this all hurts now to be far away from him. It would be a wise choice to stay away from him - far away!